I am in a hotel room far from Fair Haven but in old familiar haunts. I am getting old, slept fitfully, am up way too early, an ice pack on my back, sitting drinking coffee and stumbling through The Word looking for feeling better. My body getting old is sorrowful and aggravating, my mind aging is scary. Your mind thinks about your body getting old and feels sorry for it and you. Your mind getting old has nothing to think about its plight, it is it, it's thinking it’s old and it knows it. Unsettling. I am here for the funeral of a young man. These two experiences seem to be similarly weighing on me, their death has unsettled me.
Death is an abruption, a sudden breaking away from the mass of us, the living. There is no preparation for it even when we know it is coming. It is the most difficult separation because it is so permanent. But we do not lose hope. It is only as permanent as the earth, the sky, mountains, and the stars, all of which hold for us a certain sense of the infinite. But they, like everything on earth, are not permanent. They too will abruptly end. And then our hope happens, we, and the dead bodies left here, will be made new again, in bodies too glorious to imagine. The abruption here will not really be a breaking away from a mass here but a rejoining a mass there, a permanent, infinite, heavenly glorious mass of joy and delight. And we, being made new, will be joined once more, with You Three, forever and evermore, in completeness, a brand new, without blemish, wholeness…in a twinkling, the greatest abruption of all no time.
I sit in a hotel room and write this to myself.
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Eight years ago our daughter came home from the the hospital still deeply involved in the the greatest struggle of our family's fight with the abruption. |